Texting - The New Exit For Girls...

With the plummet of Blackberrys (BB) and Blackberry Messenger (BBM). Texting has regained it’s place as the most common form of communication between sex’s of our demographic. Me personally, I’ve never been a fan of texting, maybe cause I’ve been so used to the instant, friendly and comfortable way of communicated via BBM. Nonetheless, blackberrys are slowly leaving everyones pockets, so when males like myself, ask for the opposite sex’s details, it's now back to the usual and more conventional “what’s your number” as a opposed to the more recent and more successful “what’s your BB pin”.

However, you would think a female giving out her number would be more favourable than a blackberry pin.  Unfortunately, you are very wrong. And this simple incorrect thinking is down to females ignoring text messages. I and many others have fallen victim to the ‘airing’ of texts. You know the ones that supply the infamous “tumble weed” feeling. And it’s quite simple as to why this arises- texting is less intruisive than BBM. And this is for following reasons...

For one, texting is not 'instant', in which, she doesn’t have to reply immediately, for all she cares she could reply in 2096 if she really wants to. Secondly, there’s no delivered or received symbols like you would fine on BBM, so it doesn’t make it obvious that she’s ignoring you and feels pressured to reply. And, lastly she knows; despite the fact you’ve got her number, she’s pretty certain that you are not gonna call her, cause lets be real...you haven’t got the balls to do it.

So, if on a night out you get a hot mamacita’s number and you text her the next day and you don’t receive that ever-so important reply, you now know why – and just know you’re not alone it’s happening to the best of us.

Disclaimer: Remember there’s obviously women out there who do and will reply, I’m just angry because this happened to me over the weekend and I thought it was quite mean to be fair. So don’t let it discourage you from getting a girls number, infact let it inspire you to prove me wrong.

Gezza...

Taboo?!....Now normality!

Erm...Ok, if you're my age (19/20) press rewind to about 4 years ago...ok you've done that? Yeah cool. Do you recall a time where the notion of sex was one that had connotations of immoral, taboo and was basically straight up nasty? Yeah I thought you did, I too remember a time where causal sex was something completely uncommon and if it were to happen it garnered mad hysteria of "what, they had sex", "you had sex?", "yeah, she's a hoe, she slept with so and so".

Now fast-forward back to the present day; are you like me and look back and think how young and innocent we were (D'awwww). As I don't know about you, but sex has become a casual part of our life, I mean, I remember the roars and spurge of celebratory hi-5's that my peers and I would produce when when one of our mates scored. Nonetheless, sex is very common and has become basic normality for our age and culture. Also can I add, I am not condoning that mass sex is correct, however I'm saying it is part of the age we are at now, so embrace it, ok. This goes for boys and girls...as Cyndy Lauper famously said "girls just wanna have fun". And my point in saying this, is that we are now at a limbo age whereby we are adults, however the youngest or rather the beginning stage of adulthood, in which, we should enjoy the fruits of this particular period of time. As soon; we'll be all old and frail and settling down with Mr or Mrs right. 

So my point in closing, is that, embrace sex (no I'm not no hippy and no I don't have sex on a regular basis) enjoy the fact, that we're still young and can allow ourselves to be liberal and have fun. Cause, sooner or later we'll look back and think faaaack....I really shoulda put my hand in the cookie jar whilst I had the chance.

Disclaimer: I must press the issue of safe sex. Please fellas wear a condom having a child is no joke, nor is that itchy penis or burning sensation when you pee. Have fun everyone! 

Gezza...